Walking away from a life that once trapped her, Vatsala Nair Manoharan founded a community that helps women reclaim their lives after abuse
They say it takes a village to raise a child, lead a good life, be a good mother. Community isn’t a nice-to-have—it’s vital. And survival? Also a group effort, it turns out.
If anyone knows this first-hand, Vatsala Nair Manoharan does. There’s a reason she founded Moms Village Asia. Although it represents different things to different women, one way of describing Moms Village Asia is a launch pad for women to reclaim their lives through community support, entrepreneurship, financial independence and domestic violence advocacy.
It’s a community Vatsala herself needed when she first walked away from an abusive marriage of 16 years, taking her young twin boys with her and rebuilding a life for herself after what seemed like an impossible escape.
“I wasn’t just a survivor of physical and mental abuse,” she says, “but, like many housewives, I suffered from financial abuse.”
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“It was the support system I built and the two businesses I started from home, that saved and survived me even to date. Now, I’m committed to replicating that for other women on the same path,” she says.
An outspoken advocate against domestic violence, Vatsala uses her online and offline platform to spark crucial conversations about domestic violence and social change.
Her online #10ringgit campaign, for instance, aims to create a mindset shift among women about their financial wellbeing. The idea for it first started in 2018, when she—still a homemaker then—asked her ex-partner for RM10 to buy food, only to be told “I gave you that money last week.”
A moment of subtle humiliation, it sparked an unexpected epiphany. “That RM10 request wasn’t about nasi lemak anymore,” Vatsala recalls. “It made me feel incredibly small. I began questioning myself: Was it because I was financially dependent? Was it because I wasn’t even worth RM10? I made myself a promise that day: I would earn my own RM10, an amount so small, yet powerful, so no one would ever again question what I deserved.”







